July 2009

July was an important month and I didn't blog it. I can't live with myself if I don't make mention of the fact that Ren turned 16 this year. He is such an amazing kid! He is always willing to help others and he has such a happy attitude about everything. He hasn't had an easy 16 years but he always faces his challenges with a smile. He got a car for his birthday. It's nothing fancy but he is so proud of that car. He also became a Priest at church. He takes his responsibilities seriously and I of course cried the first time he blessed the sacrament. He's growing up too fast and it's a bit scary. I went to the temple with Dave last month and I could barely contain the anxiety when 2 boys were going through for the first time before their missions. They didn't look much older than Ren and the whole time I was in panic mode thinking of all the things I still needed to teach him. I know you've all heard it before but they grow up too fast. Enjoy them while you can.

Emma also had a birthday in July. It wasn't a big production this year because it was an odd year. We have moved big birthday parties to even years. She is 11 now and in middle school. She had an adventure filled summer with her first cast. She was running in sandals and fell in a little hole. She fractured her ankle and had wear a cast for 6 weeks. She thought it was great for the first couple days! She also had to have an ingrown toenail taken care of. I had to be there when they cut it out. Not pleasant. She handled it like a trooper though. She's had fun this year but she is so looking forward to 12. According to Emma nothing fun happens until your 12. Wait until she sees what Savannah gets to do when she turns 14 this year.
Finally, there was Jackson's birthday. Our baby turned 7 and he shared a party with Emma this year. They were both born on July 30th so we combined the festivities. 7 is the year that everyone focuses on preparing for baptism. Everyone that is but Jack. I think he is trying to fit every naughty deed in before he's held accountable. I'm thinking Dave might need to dunk him a couple times to get him really clean! He is my joy and challenge all rolled up into one. I should have known when we gave him the name David that we were in for trouble.
I love these kids! I don't want them to look back and think they were forgotten. I promise I'll TRY to do better this year.

Dave's Birthday Extravaganza

So Dave was pretty much spoiled for his birthday. His co-workers in Tucson threw him a party, he got breakfast in bed, took the day off work, I made his favorite dish for lunch, Savannah made his favorite dinner dish and we almost burned down the house with his birthday cake and candles. I then planned a dinner party at Hana Tokyo, a Japanese steak House, with 14 of our closest friends.;0)It was a blast! Here's some pictures.

What's Better Than a Finished Backyard?

Sometimes I need to remind myself of my blessings. I have been known on occasion to complain of my unfinished backyard that was started close to 3 years ago. As I look outside at the still unfinished backyard I have to consciously remind myself why it is unfinished.

We always plan to spend our extra $ on the backyard but here is where Dave and I have decided to spend it instead.

1. School clothes for 5 kids
2. Trip to Indiana when my mom was going through Radiation Therapy
3. Braces
4. Christmas for a family of 7
5. Ski trip with the kids
6. Taking the family to Rocky Point
7. Hospital visit for Jordan's accident in Rocky Point
8. School clothes for 5 kids
9. Spending the summer with my kids instead of working
10. Trip to Indiana to see my mom whose battling cancer
11. Trip to Utah to visit Grandma Bodily for her 90th birthday
12. Did I mention school clothes for 5 kids
13. Polar Express trip

I don't think the kids will remember that the backyard that they played in everyday didn't have the trees, grass, and flowers that their mom worries about all the time. They will remember the trips, family time, clothes that fit, and the wonderful Dad that reminded their Mom daily that there are more important things than an immaculate backyard. So when you see my unfinished backyard just picture my happy family instead.

9 year old math

So Jordan is in 3rd grade and he comes home today and says, "Mom I'm starting on division in math." Me being the observant mother that I am ask, "You mean you already know multiplication?" He has never practiced multiplication at home so I had no idea he knew it. I quizzed him a little bit to make sure he knew what he was talking about. I started with the more simple problems like 2x6 and 3x4. Then I hit him with a hard one. All of my older children have had problems with their 6's so I asked him what 6x7 was. He couldn't remember so he says, "well 7x3=21 and 3+3=6 so 21+21=42, 6x7=42." WHAT? How the heck did he figure that out. I'm going out on a limb here and guessing that he is not going to be coming to me for math help much longer. Wait, actually I don't think he's asked me for math help since kindergarten. Little smarty pants!